• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    16 days ago

    Now that I present more queer with my head shaved and some of my clothing choices, men are more forward about sexualizing other women around me. Thinking I’ll join in or agree. I do internally, because women are generally quite attractive, but it’s weird to be treated like one of the boys sometimes lol

    • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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      16 days ago

      Dag, I’ve been guilty of this, with female coworkers I know are lesbians. Is that weird? To be like “check out the girl over there in the green top”?

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        16 days ago

        It varies person to person, in my experience. Some straight dudes are also uncomfortable with this “guy talk”. And some bi and gay chicks will do it so much it makes me uncomfortable lol

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          Pansexual woman here. The closest I’ve gotten to this kind of talk was gushing about Professor Brian Cox’s smile to a (gay male) friend who loves documentaries as much as I do.

          For real though

          Yeah, talk nerdy to me, baby

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        16 days ago

        I don’t think so, you’re just sharing something with someone you know has the same interests. I doubt you’d start catcalling together.