• Arkhive@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    14 days ago

    Isn’t the issue the exploitation of sex workers, mostly women? Like if you’ve found ethical porn, by all means wack your shit to it. I just think the things people are able to explore with writing, or hell even animation if the artists aren’t exploited, are much more varied and interesting without exploiting actors. Like I’ve found a few queer porn projects that are like owned by the actors and stuff. Basically porn coops, which is fucking awesome.

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      14 days ago

      I think that’s a major issue, another that comes to mind for me is that men tend towards quite extreme pornography which may give them a stilted idea of what sexual relationships can be like

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        13 days ago

        Women are obviously intellectually inferior to men.

        They look at photoshoped adverts and feel bad because they aren’t as pretty, even though the actual model can’t meet the required standards.

        I regularly watch surgically “enhanced” people fuck for 30 minutes while they are on some kind of weak horse tranquilizer and it doesn’t affect me negatively in the slightest, I assure you.

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            13 days ago

            Breast implants and different kinds of penis enlargements are common.

            Viagra and numbing agents help prolong the performance.

            Sure, not all porn is like that, but a lot of it is and I can see it negatively affecting self-perception of viewers.

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              13 days ago

              I was talking about you claiming women are inferior and you not being affected. Those are dubious claims if you meant them.

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        13 days ago

        Frankly, looking at the “romance” section, that may be an outdated stereotype.

        Either that, or “extreme” is doing a lot of legwork in that sentence.

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        13 days ago

        I wouldn’t call it perverted because I think that word has been stigmatized and weaponized to shame people, but I do in fact shop for video games based on which studios seem to treat their workers the fairest.

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          13 days ago

          My point is that if you want to shame people because of exploitation you should shame most video game players just like the viewers of exploitative porn. Anything else is just an excuse to be a regressive prude.

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            13 days ago

            Okay sure, there’s no ethical consumption under capitalism. So yeah, feel shame for consuming all media, ethical or not. /s

            Is that the broad statement you want me to say to avoid being picked apart because it’s “technically correct” which is the only type of correct I need to be to “win” this would be discussion turned argument?

            Killer “gotcha” moment bud 🤣

            If someone buys a game they know exploits workers, or is destroying the world by participating in the AI bubble, and feels shame for doing it, that’s between them and their conscience. Shame is an incredible motivator, particularly for social and political issues. There’s a reason it gets shouted at protests and at political figures. All I said was shaming people for being interested in sexually explicit content is bad. I did not say all shame is bad.

            I could go on, but OH! Would you look at that. It’s block o’clock! Lovely chatting with you while it lasted.