Wherever I wander I wonder whether I’ll ever find a place to call home…

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  • If I could get them to realize one thing, it would be that feminism isn’t about women participating in patriarchal structures of oppression as oppressors; it’s about abolishing patriarchal structures of oppression.

    If I got a bonus thing, it would be getting them to realize that patriarchy also harms men, that toxic masculinity harms men (and can be perpetuated by women), and that only a relatively small percentage of men can be categorized as “oppressors.”

    An oligarch is an oligarch, whether man or woman. And bullying a vulnerable man because he’s an easier target than an actual oppressor is not “smashing the patriarchy.”





  • But see, every human social interaction these days is viewed through the lense of “must have sexual undertones.”

    That’s why it’s hard to go in public/make eye contact with strangers without someone glaring at you and accusing you of something nasty…


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    11 hours ago

    Wow, this comment chain went from heartwarming to depressing real fast. I’m sorry you lost your friend.

    The loneliness epidemic is absolutely real, and this isolating society is killing us all by design and it breaks my heart.

    That’s true, but internet pseudo-feminists seem intent on declaring that the loneliness epidemic isn’t real and is just made up by the manosphere to oppress women.

    (This isn’t a statement against feminism, but the idea that anything that hurts men is feminist isn’t really feminism)






  • One doesn’t have to be a professional to play a sport. One shouldn’t have to be a professional to participate in a rational debate either.

    Dribbling and dunking on an unwilling participant in the grocery store who’s just trying to do some shopping would be a douchebag move. But if you go to a basketball court and start engaging with the people dribbling, then they’re not being a douche when they dunk on you.

    Internet forums are a public space where theoretically people can discuss whatever they want. If someone doesn’t want to participate in a discussion then they don’t have to, but they shouldn’t get upset when they see someone lay out a well-crafted treatise on the nature of toe beans. If they don’t want to debate, they don’t have to engage. That’s the freedom of the internet.

    I think the problem are the trolls who don’t engage in good faith or rationally, and simply make disingenuous strawman arguments so they can insult people about scenarios that they’ve made up and projected onto the other person. That’s not what I mean when I say rational debate.





  • I still value democracy, while recognizing that the US is a shitshow right now. The americans who support democracy are not in favor of what’s going on right now.

    Throwing out democracy because it’s being destroyed by a fascist in america is akin to throwing out the baby with the bath water.

    Democracy is the baby. It’s fragile and helpless on it’s own, and requires attention and active participation from adults in order to be nurtured and grow. Fascism is the pile of dog shit the baby got into when the adults left the room. The baby just needs a bath.