Personally I hate that sonarr is stuck on thetvdb when plex/jellyfin both primarily use tmdb. Usually it’s fine but for certain shows the differences can be unreconcilable.

I’ve been eyeballing https://github.com/maxdorninger/MediaManager but haven’t gotten around to it yet

Stoats backend does support voice and video it’s just not quite enabled in the frontend yet. I got it all working by following the info here https://github.com/javif89/stoat-selfhost