I don’t believe you can visually identify asbestos in paint and or other materials. There may be indicators but to be sure you need it tested.
In my neck of the US, I was required to take samples to a lab for testing prior to dumping during a remodel. Think it was about 135 for exterior paint and plater/drywall. Check your local regulations.
The mental gymnastics you are doing to blame Valve for your inability to have any forethought about receiving your purchase is at an Olympic level.
10s across the board.