You can’t honestly expect everyone to understand how to do these things.

If you really wanted to “promote the cause” then you would just host a JellyFin/Plex/Kodi/Whatever.

I don’t even know who does it worse.

People who have absolutely zero experience with children judging

Or the other parents who had a child that gave them no issues from birth. ‘Just politely ask them’ and they will be good. It ‘worked for me’.