• Aniki@feddit.org
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      the act of getting a date might be easier for women, but the chances of the date going well are not higher.

    • VinegarChunks@lemmus.org
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      Getting a date is a lot harder for a guy.

      Meeting up with unknown dudes met on the Internet is a lot riskier for a woman.

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        Getting a date is a lot harder for a guy.

        As a non-fit-bro-adonis I have to put shittons of effort into my profile to make it stand out. It’s pretty grating when 70% of the women I’m scrolling through have the same generic-ass answers while also saying “I’m not like other women”

        • Thinks liking the Office is a personality trait

        • “Go on Adventures”

        • “Fluent in sarcasm”

        • States what their love language is

        • What I order for the table: “Chips and queso!” Or “Margs and queso!”

        • Simple pleasures: “clean sheets and coffee”

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          I have a rule that there has to be something I find interesting or want to know more about in someone’s profile before I will message them.

          This immediately rules out about half the profiles I see.