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Cake day: June 14th, 2025

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  • You dont even have to ask. Friend can just sit at the bar, or they can bring a second person and just be at a different table. If this is a trauma response, there are ways to make in nonintrusive. Plus, if the other person doesnt know you brought back up, theyre going to be more themselves, and youll see if theyre a sleeze or not sooner. Its not hard to pretend to not be a sleeze while youre being watched then turn it around immediately when youre not.



  • When i walked in, the one employee actively tried to help me before her manager got in the way. They certainly do have to put up with that every day. There were 3 of us there at the same time who made the same mistake. If it really was such a problem, they wouldn’t have set up a stand PoS and a counter and made it look like a regular shop


  • I got into this with a coffee shop recently. Apparently they were “online order and pickup only.” And i went in trying to get coffee. One person was trying to help me, and what i assume was her manager was being a dick.

    “Just download the app and put your order in.”

    “Nah im not going to do that. I just want a black coffee. Nothing fancy.”

    “We’re online only”

    other employee rings me up, pours me a cup, and is seemingly just trying to help me gtfo

    She hands it to this dude… To hand to me

    “Next time, use the app.”

    “Bro there wont be a next time.”




  • That just reinforces their behavior and they keep doing it. If they dont want to go to the grocery store or what ever, they cry, they go. They learn crying gets them what they want and they become spoiled brats. Tantrums and crying are growth opportunities some times, and not to mention, other times the parent needs to be there and they dont have other child care options.

    Sorry to inconvenience you